Behind the Practice
Hello, I’m Bridget Ginty
I’m a Spiritual Life Coach, Reiki Master and Teacher, Tarot Master O.A Dip and holistic therapist.
I help spiritually curious people understand themselves, trust their intuition and find their own way forward.
I don’t tell people what to think. I help them hear what they already know beneath the noise, doubt and day-to-day demands of life.
Spiritual, yes. Away with the fairies, no.
How I Got Here
Before Bridget Spiritual Life Coach, I spent nearly 30 years working in the NHS as both a Registered General Nurse and a Registered Mental Health Nurse.
That experience taught me a great deal about people not just bodies, symptoms and diagnoses, but fear, courage, grief, resilience and what happens when somebody finally feels heard. I brought people into the world and was with them when they passed, opening the window to let their soul go free.
I think I have always been energy sensitive and highly intuitive. In my work these “powers” served me well.
I would insist on walking around the ward I as to be in charge of before accepting the keys, but I could tell, which of these vulnerable people needed additional input to maintain their safety and dignity. I would be responsible for anything and everything that happened in the duration of my shift . I needed to be highly vigilant “Not on my Watch”.
II worked with and for my Clients, seeing the person behind the presentation.
I left the NHS in 2017, I had a diagnosis of PTSD and was medically retired. This was a really difficult time for me. I grieved for my job, my career, my work, my clients, The friend who became a colleague, who betrayed me – I wanted to shake strongly by the throat now after having therapy and integrated all parts of myself – and putting my unwavering trust in The Universe- I would now shake his hand!
Everything Happens For a Reason.
Just as it seems everything is falling apart – it may be that things are actually coming together.
I did not want to continue counselling and therapy. So for a while I taught English to Speakers of Other Languages. TESOL. Volunteering for COMPAS teaching Czech, Slovak and Roma people and PARCA Peterborough Asylum Seeker and Refugee association. I found my students would seek me out on the breaks and would want to tell me their triumphs and obstacles, even though there was a language barrier and I may have left The NHS but I, found I hadn’t left behind my ability to listen, notice what isn’t being said and remain steady when life becomes difficult.
I started teaching English 1:1 After outgrowing the dining room table, I moved into a small cabin.
I knew EXACTLY what I wanted with this building. I could see it so clearly in my mind. But only had the funds for one third of what I wanted. Gutted. Then The Universe stepped in an nearly to the penny my PPI claim came through.
From a second hand shop I sourced what came to be known as ” The Magic Talking Chair” – a brown leather Chesterfield armchair. Before long I was back in therapy, as I’d be filling out a client intake form for a Holistic / Energy Healing session and my client would have emotions come into their eyes and roll down their cheeks.
My work has changed. The heart of it hasn’t.
We build the cabin in 2023, This was a big step and an exercise in build it and they will come.
Believe, Become, Be™ was born.
Believe, Become, Be™
Believe that change is possible.
Become the person you are capable of being.
Be your authentic self fully present in your own life.,
And the BLAH™ method was created to address the – Beliefs, Lies, Assumptions and Habits that we create and adhere to, but that hold us back.
My Own Spiritual Journey
I think I have always been “Spiritual” – but what does that actually mean? Different things to different people.
My journey is unique and personal to me. I encourage you not to judge me by the chapter you walked in on.
I trained as a Spiritual Life Coach, heavily investing in myself, bringing together Mind, Body and Spirit. How can you not treat all aspects of a person? Your body speaks your mind. Energy goes where attention flows. Thoughts are things. The subconscious mind knows more about you than you do! and don’t get me started on the Collective Unconscious and how thanks to The Law of Divine Oneness Everything and everyone is connected. What we think, say and do affects the whole.
I have always had a heightened intuition. Initially I think it was gifted to me as a protective measure. I had to be able to read my Mother at 10 paces in order to avoid a good whopping from what ever was to hand. I thought it was completely normal to see colours around people, to have random smells arrive and depart. In the early days I was accompanied by the smell of someone next to me sucking peppermints, especially if I was low.
Having had a childhood, I knew I did not want children. If in a moment of madness I turned into my mother, I would never forgive myself. So, rather than push a pram I chose to pull a suitcase or backpack.
I travelled as much and as far as I could afford in time and money as I was working full time. I have been blessed to be included in and learn about different cultures, beliefs and religions.
A trip to Penang an island off the mainland of Malaysia was a truly transformative experience for me. My night charge nurse Kumar, was from Penang and he and his family were going to visit relatives in Penang. I asked nicely and got to tag along. Being a sun bunny, I stayed in a family owned apartment right on the beach in Batu Ferringhi. Out of the block, past the trees full of chattering monkeys, over the road and straight on the beach. The water was so warm had it been a bath you would have put more cold in!. I rode a white horse along the sand and in the sea. There was a waterfall, fresh water meeting the ocean. With this as my happy place, to return to, I went off exploring, the known to tourists sites and the recommended by my new Malay family, who adopted me as soon as I arrived!. I saw Buddhas shrines, temples, Hindu gods and goddesses. Visited the rainforest – learned the lesson that Mother of Earth is a source not a resource. Listened hypnotised by chanting monks. Swung prayer wheels – putting my intent out there. Participated in a “family” baby shower – where I was dressed in acres of material, that transformed into a sari.
Thaipusam in Penang
Two pivotal events changed my life forever. The first was the Festival of Thaipusam in Penang. This is a massive, vibrant three-day Hindu festival dedicated to Lord Murugan. It features iconic golden and silver chariot processions from George Town to the Arulmigu Balathandayuthapani Temple (Waterfall Temple), This chariot is pulled by cows, which are sacred, and the chariot must travel on the purest milk. Once I knew that, the piles of coconuts lining the street, that had mysteriously arrived 2 days earlier, made sense. As soon as you could see the chariot coming you ran out and smashed the coconuts, the road was awash. I learned later that the act of smashing was significant too as it symbolises the shattering of the human ego.
As I understand it you can ask Lord Murugan, for what you want – good exam results, promotion, fertility, health, wealth and longevity. Which he grants. In return, you thank him with milk and honey.
Not carried in milk bottles or jam jars but in metal pots that you carry on hooks inserted into your body by the priests at the assorted temples. Or you may choose to “take the vey” a metal “letter opener” that the priest pushes through your cheeks or your tongue. As another act of penance you may choose to be attached to a Kavadi an elaborate spiked framework (think fabricless umbrella meets Edward Scissor hands). Extreme body piercing involved here.
Lining the roads for the constantly, whirling and dancing devotees are refreshment stations, dedicated to a particular Hindu God or Goddess called pandays. Kumars family built a panday and I served there, handing out water and juice. The constant chanting, which sounded to me like “Vey vay take the vey”. Was was hypnotic.
Folks were whipped up in such a Religious fervour that women were regularly fainting at the sight of the chariot and were lifted and carried out the way of the in coming cows.
The culmination of this festival, never on the same date, but decided by the auspicious moon and star placement, is the Waterfall temple on the top of quite a steep hill. Devotees climb up the hill, in a procession and the milk and honey that they carry is poured over the God in the gilded cage. The hill runs white with milk.
I’d never seen anything like this and was trying to understand. Kumar had given me some understanding. prepare by fasting, fluids only but the majority of devotees were chewing on beetle nut leaves, which have a mild stimulating effect.
I went with Kumar to one of the busy temples where the devotees were lining up to receive their piercing/s of choice. I swear not one drop of blood was to be seen, the site had saffron and a red powder applied. It was hot and rather frantic in the temple courtyard. The chanting echoed off the walls. I watched transfixed – too transfixed – I know I started to sway and that I’d probably started to go into a trance. Two monks in saffron robes rushed towards me, one slapped me straight between the eyes the other right at the base of my spine. I know now that it was to open my third eye and to raise my Kundalini- the sleeping snake inhabiting the coccyx, raising it up to balance my chakras. The 7 wheels of energy that spin up and down the spine.
Suddenly everything went kind of technicolour – very vivid – I wasn’t swaying anymore but standing strong, feeling powerful in mind, body and spirit. My world had shifted. I’d been awakened.
Siva and the Ashram
The second major event on my spiritual path, arrived in a very old and very battered Mercedes Benz car. As soon as this car came into view people on the street stopped and waved. The car slowed and came to a stop by Kumar and I on the side of the road. People clustered around us. The biggest man I think I had ever seen got out and with a wave of his hand dismissed the onlookers leaving just Kumar and myself. The giant of a man, dressed in yellow coloured baggy pants and an oversized tunic top, wearing a mala, Mala beads are strings of 108 prayer beads used in Hinduism, Buddhism, and Sikhism to count mantra repetitions, breaths, or intentions during meditation. They typically feature a larger “guru bead” and a tassel, and are made from materials like seeds, wood, or gemstones. HIs long black hair was as thick as rope, black beard and moustache, tidy and soft. Huge feet in dusty sandals made his way towards us, but no intimidation or threat did I feel, but a curious sensation that we’d met before. He greeted Kumar affectionately and Kumar introduced me to his cousin Siva. It’s a common greeting in Malaysia to say “Have you taken food?”, Kumar said “no”, We went in the battered Mercedes to a seafood restaurant. I’d never would have found this gem as a tourist. Kumar and Siva caught up on family matters, Siva had heard Kumar was in Penang at the family house and had driven over from the main land.
Then, Siva, looked at me, I mean not the outside of me, but right into me. After asking my full name and date of birth he told me accurately all about me. I was fascinated and he patiently answered my questions. Kumar left us to it. We talked of life, the Universe and everything. He wanted to know about England and Manchester United!
He eventually shared his story. He’d been a bad man, smuggling what ever he could between India and Malaysia. He’d got shot, obviously not fatally but well enough to be forced to stop, lie horizontal and think about his life. He was married and had 2 children under 10. He thought long and hard, he told me. Then, returned to India. Three years later, he returned to Mainland Malaysia and opened up an ashram. He’d found a belief system integrating mysticism with Christianity, mostly the saints, Buddhism and found again his faith and lifestyle as a Hindu. Would I like to see the ashram?
Heck yes, so the following day, as arranged, I rode a 125 moped, with a piss pot helmet on – over the third longest road bridge in the world. I felt the vibrations long after I’d got off the bike. I secured a room at a local hotel for next to nothing because staying at the ashram were the male devotees / disciples. Who, upon meeting me, wanted to know also all about Manchester United!
Now, ashrams are quiet places of ritual, tradition, ascendence, mysticism, magic, obedience, listening to the words of the Guru and watching your own thoughts in prayer, chanting and meditation.
I drank in all the experiences that I was blessed to watch or participate in. I sat with Siva for hours rubbing his huge calloused feet.
I was demoted from peeling shells from boiled eggs as I could not always remove the shell in one whole piece.
I saw with my own eyes the impossible become possible. I learned the power of intent. I watched two, hooded cobras dancing at the end of the garden in perfect unison with each other and the rhythmic chanting.
I walked on fire. I was anointed with fragrant oils. I was truly blessed to be in this place with this amazing man. He remains in my heart having passed in 2020. His teachings remain too in my heart, soul and actions.
Back in England I sought out places where I could continue and further develop my Spirituality. I found places were few and far between, expensive or too far away. The events / workshops / teachings that I went too all seemed to assume a certain level of knowledge. I remember being handed a deck of Tarot cards (I’d had a set since I was about 14) but then to be told “give the other person a reading” and then tell the group “what did you get”, quite intimidating, I hated the going around the room, getting closer and closer to my turn. psychometry and ribbon reading was much the same – give the other person a reading and share. What did you get? What did you get during a meditation.
Dissatisfied with groups where a certain level of knowledge is assumed, the only thing I could do, was to start my own Spiritual Development Circles, and so I did.
After dreams about gods and goddesses of Greek and Roman times, I found I could rent a conservatory at the back of Apollo!
Who I Help
I work with spiritually curious people.
Some arrive full of questions. Some have had experiences they cannot explain. Some feel stuck, disconnected or at a crossroads. Others simply know there is more to life than getting up, getting things done and going back to bed.
You may want to understand your intuition, explore your spiritual abilities or feel more connected to yourself, Spirit and the Universe.
You may not know what you are looking for yet.
That is all right.
You do not need a label, a grand plan or a perfectly phrased question. Curiosity is enough to get us started.
Generally the phone rings with an unknown number, I answer. I generally hear – I’ve seen your website and I’m interested in evolving my spiritual side.
I’ve head about you from a friend, he / she said I should call you.
“I have just began my journey into crystals. I currently learning about them and how to use them and came across your page whilst searching the internet for places near me. I was wondering if you did any groups or classes relating to crystals?” (actual quote)
“Good evening, I am enquiring about your beginner sessions. Thursday 6pm to 8pm is this still full? Or Monday 7pm to 9pm. I am on a majour self discovery journey after a huge life change a few months ago. I have always been interested in the spiritial world but I guess never took a leap. Sorry for my short blunt message. I really am just managing to function right now”
Why I Created the Spiritual Awareness Development Circles
When I returned to England, I searched for somewhere to continue developing my spirituality.
What I found was often expensive, too far away or pitched at people who already seemed to know what they were doing.
I didn’t.
I remember being handed a deck of Tarot cards and being told “Give the other person a reading” Then I had to tell the whole group what I had received. ( I’d had a deck of Tarot Cards since I was about 14, I thought I knew my way around them) but speed reading and sharing with the entire group, was scary
No teaching. No preparation. Just get on with it.
I hated waiting for my turn as the attention travelled closer and closer around the room.
Psychometry and ribbon reading were much the same: “Give the other person a reading. What did you get? Now tell everybody.”
It was intimidating—not inspiring.
So I created the kind of spiritual space I had been looking for.
A place where beginners are welcome. Where nothing is assumed. Where people are taught before being expected to do. Where questions are encouraged and nobody is forced to perform.
No dreaded going around the room.
No forced pair work.
No being made to feel silly because you don’t know something yet.
Just awareness, growth and connection—among friends.
I made a promise to myself that I would stay true my belief system. So, I speak of Spirit and the Divine Universal Energy, waves and pulses, vibrating molecules and not God, no Lords Prayer.
I teach / share the basics in a clear, easy to understand, professional way. I do not pitch up unprepared and declare that I was going to be led by Spirit regarding what the topic for the group is. I do not read from a book or A4 pages, that are muddled and disconnected.
I come prepared to prepare you for another step on your journey.
What It Is Like to Work With Me
Working with me is warm, honest, informal and down to earth.
There may be Tarot cards, crystals, energy work, guided meditation and conversations about Spirit, intuition and the Universe.
There will also be straight talking, laughter, proper questions and plenty of room to say, “I haven’t got a clue.”
You will never be asked to perform spirituality for me.
You do not need to impress me, agree with me or pretend to understand something when you don’t.
I will not tell you what to think or what you must believe. I will share what I know, ask the questions that matter and help you explore what feels true for you.
This is your journey—not mine.
Spiritual, yes. Away with the fairies, no.
What do we all laugh about? I’ve been blessed to have a life full of adventures and random experiences, I can generally raise the vibration in the room with a story or anecdote. I have huge respect for the Divine Universal Life Force Energy, but it seems that it has a sense of humour, and I tell of the times its pranked me!
Jokes, innuendos, random events are all funny, so we speak of these and laugh.
People tell me that “… I definitely want to learn about Tarot and I wouldn’t go to anyone other than you to learn more” Xx
My Approach
I work with the whole person—mind, body and spirit.
How can you separate them?
Your body speaks your mind. Your energy changes when life changes. Your beliefs affect your choices. Your past can shape your present without asking your permission.
That is why my work is not one-size-fits-all.
I listen to the words you use, notice the words you avoid and pay attention to what sits underneath them.
I see the person behind the presentation.
You are a Human Being, not a Human Doing.
MMMM this is hard. I notice all sorts but writing it down looks like I’m deliberately using sound techniques and interventions to trick people into opening up, or bringing up difficult issues. I’ve been doing this job of talking and listening as a career, job, work and vocation, since I was 18, I’m 59 and I’ve picked up some skills along the way! Maybe it’s fair to say that my involvement in your subconscious mind and / or your shadow self makes my approach different.
Believe, Become, Be™
Believe that change is possible.
Become the person you are capable of being.
Be your authentic self—fully present in your own life.
Believe, Become, Be™ is not simply the name above the door.
It is the journey I have lived and the journey I now help others to make.
Believe, Become, Be™ I think came about when it actually happened to me
I’ve been overweight for most of my life. When I was in the NHS food was a bribe, a reward, a comfort a way to relieve boredom, celebrate, commiserate, as most of my work in the Community as a CPN I was lone working. Going into peoples homes with Samurai Swords hanging on the wall. I left the NHS and got happy! I lost 14 stone. Going from 23 stone to 9 stone. People upon seeing a picture of me this size don’t recognise me. I don’t either. I was virtually disabled by fat, but believed I could and should be slim, with this belief mindset I became a member of the size 8 club and now I’m comfortable with who I be!
The BLAH™ Method
BLAH™ stands for:
- Beliefs
- Lies
- Assumptions
- Habits
We all collect them.
Some were handed to us by families, schools, workplaces, relationships, religion, society or difficult experiences. Others were created to protect us at a time when we needed them.
They may once have served a purpose.
That does not mean they should be allowed to run the rest of our lives.
The BLAH™ Method helps us identify what is holding us back, question whether it is still true and decide what we want to carry forward.
The teaching is sacred. The words are not.
How did I come up with Blah? I needed something catchy, memorable and useful to my clients, when they are hearing their Itty Bitty Shitty Committee (these are the folks living rent free inside your head) always sticking their two penneth in – “You’re too old,” “It’ll never work”
All those Beliefs and Lies we tell ourselves and the untested assumptions we make and the habits that we reinforce, Blah, Blah, Blah.
Intuition With Both Feet on the Ground
I believe intuition matters—but so do common sense, personal responsibility and discernment.
Not every coincidence is a message. Not every difficult experience is punishment. Not everything that happens should be wrapped in spiritual language and tied up with a sparkly bow.
Spiritual development should help you live your life—not escape from it.
It should leave you more aware, more grounded and more able to trust yourself.
What happens in the Spiritual World that drives me crackers? I’m afraid that I have to say the people who openly dismiss what I do as “not being of God”. There is a Divine force in the Universe, I just do not want to say God or adopt a faith and follow a doctrine.
I have a thing that religion is for people who fear hell.
Spirituality is for people who have been there.
Folks who confuse spirituality and spiritualism – it’s like confusing naturalist with naturist!
My Qualifications and Experience
Qualifications matter.
They demonstrate proper training, commitment and the willingness to keep learning. They also help you know that the person you are trusting has done more than watch three videos and buy a certificate from the internet.
My professional experience and training include:
Nearly 30 years in the NHS.
Registered General Nurse.
Registered Mental Health Nurse.
Degree in Therapeutic Work with Individuals.
Diploma in Counselling Skills.
TESOL/TEFL.
Spiritual Life Coach.
Reiki Master and Teacher.
Tarot Master O.A Dip.
Reflexology Practitioner.
Aromatherapy Practitioner.
Indian Head Massage Practitioner.
Crystal Healing Practitioner.
Chakra Balancing Practitioner.
Cupping (flame) Practitioner.
Certificated Law of Attraction Basic Practitioner.
Certificated Law of Attraction Master Practitioner.
Certificated Law of Attraction Wealth Practitioner.
Certificated Ho’oponopono Practitioner.
Quantum Leap Basic Coach.
Quantum Leap Master Coach.
Quantum Leap Coach for Love and Relationships.
Nevillian Coach.
Attraction Factor Coach.
Abundance Clearing Coach.
Intuitive Coach.
Nervous System Manifestation Master Coach.
Certificates available to view on request.
Governing body = International Practitioners Holistic Medicine.
Insurance = Westminster Insurance.
I have invested heavily in my own learning and development because I want to give my Clients the very best service that I can.
I am still learning.
I hope I always will be.
How I Can Help
Bridget Spiritual Life Coach brings together spiritual development, holistic therapies, teaching and one-to-one support.
Spiritual Life Coaching
For people who feel stuck, disconnected, uncertain or ready for change. We bring mind, body and spirit into the same conversation and work out what is really going on beneath the surface.
Reiki and Energy Work
Gentle, restorative treatments intended to support relaxation, balance and a greater sense of connection with yourself.
Holistic Therapies
Including Reflexology, Aromatherapy, Indian Head Massage, Cupping, Crystal Healing and Chakra Balancing.
Tarot
Not fortune-telling carved in stone, but a powerful tool for reflection, insight, symbolism and exploring what may be influencing your choices.
Spiritual Awareness Development Circles
Small, friendly groups for learning, exploring and developing your spiritual awareness without assumed knowledge or pressure to perform.
Tarot Tuesdays
A welcoming, practical space to learn Tarot, explore the cards and build confidence alongside other curious people.
Workshops and Courses
Structured learning for people who want to explore a topic more deeply, practise what they learn and take something meaningful away with them.
One-to-One Spiritual Development
Individual support shaped around your questions, experiences and interests—without squeezing you into somebody else’s version of spirituality.
Where We Meet
The Cabin
Ring the bell on my gate. That’s the hardest part.
I’ll come out and meet you, but the gate is unlocked for you to walk through.
I work out of a Cabin in my garden.
I have 2 tiny dogs that keep me company, but if you dislike dogs or have allergies I can shut them away. But they seem to believe every visitor has come specifically to see them.
Usually clients have a hot drink in front of them and a tiny dog lying next to them.
It is private, comfortable and tucked away from the noise of everyday life.
My private cabin is used for one-to-one sessions and holistic therapies.
I still have my older shed. It contains a therapy bed, work table, for candle making and vision board work. A desk, and of course, The Magic Talking Chair.
It’s like Harry Potters Room of Requirement! Making a great party space, an office space for people who want a quiet place to work.
There is ample parking and a small step into the cabin.
Feedback on my office space is that “It’s very me”. Comfy, full of interesting objects, mostly with stories behind them. Yes, I’ll take that, very me! I love good stationery and write notes in a Dior notebook, earning me the title of Dior Whore!
The Conservatory
My Spiritual Awareness Development Circles, Tarot Tuesdays and small-group workshops are held in The Conservatory.
When I was looking for an “upmarket” place to hold small groups, I kept dreaming of Greek and Roman Statues. The Conservatory is at the back of Apollo Hair and beauty.
It is welcoming, relaxed and has a single step in, with ample space for a small group to learn and talk among friends.
Tea, proper coffee and water are available. I’m a coffee snob!
When you walk in probably the first thing you’ll notice is a table towards the back of the room, with a yellow table cloth. (Yellow is my predominant brand colour, the actual brand design is colourful, but makes work for my manicurist who paints my ring finger nails to match my brand.) On this table there, really, could be anything, seemingly random but definitely spiritual, and often with a story. If it appears Chinese, then it probably is, not Temu Chinese but sourced on my travels.
A Little More About Me
I share my life with my husband, Paul, an engineer who I love with all my heart.
We didn’t get married until we were both 43. I thought I’d be single for ever, and was happy with that, but my Bestie, with my best intentions virtually forced me into on line dating. Holding out very little hope. I put in that I wanted a man, my age, no kids, no ex-wife, no baggage, own house and car, employed and within 5 miles. I explained that I as a big girl and that therefore I wore big knickers, which I referred to as “Apple Gatherers”. I got a reply back – from Paston, within 5 miles, and with or rather without all I’d stipulated. And he got my sense of humour saying he liked a “good pair of Harvest Festivals where all is safely gathered in!” In response to my large pants. After some time texting and chatting he asked if I’d like to go out next Tuesday? It just happened that this was Valentines Day, How many more signs from the Universe did I need?
I knew I loved him the first time he told me off. It was straight, to the point, honest and necessary. But there was no dragging up of other misdemeanours, muddying the issue, no name calling and no raised voices. So very different to my parents marriage, which put me right off the idea. If that was what a marriage looked like, that was not for me!
He was raised Catholic and I had a belief system. I, by then had my mother and a step mother, We did not want to offend or antagonise anyone. So, we got married in The Little White Wedding Chapel in Las Vegas. No, it wasn’t cheesy at all. Yes the Minister may well have said the words a thousand times before, but we heard them for the first time, our vows to each other resonated deeply.
A month later, we had our wedding rings blessed by a female vicar, in a Quaker Church. We had a Native American reading, the same as I’d read at my Fathers second marriage, a Jewish blessing, we had hand fasting, jumped the broomstick and walked out fist pumping to Abba “I do I do I do.”. But the things that were important were there, my father walked me up the aisle. My bestie had my back (and bouquet) as bridesmaid. Pauls eldest brother was his best man.
The reception was at Dads farm, where I’d grown up, marquee on the lawn. One barn turned into dance floor and open bar the other into a casino! Craps, Roulette and Black Jack. The magician, hired to keep the kids quiet during the speeches, stayed to the end. Paul and I sat in the kitchen at about 3am with him pulling diamonte hairpins out of my up-do! It was a great day and we were blessed to have family and friends share it with us.
Neither of us wanted children but we have two fur babies. Gingham and Krteck. They are a Czech breed of dog, Pražský Krysařík and officially the smallest breed, but the breed is not recognized by the kennel club in the UK. They object strongly about being called the c word. They are not Chihuahua’s.
Paul and I love to travel, learning about other cultures and finding the places tourists do not usually see. Amongst our long haul travels, was a trip to China for a full 40 minutes!
I am equally happy scouring charity shops and car boots, rescuing something overlooked and giving it another life with sandpaper, paint and sheer bloody-mindedness. I’m like a Womble “making good use of the things that I find, things that the everyday folk leave behind!”
When nobody needs anything from me, I enjoy being at the farm, where my dogs can be off their leads running free. My Dad and I walking behind having seriously random conversations. I need my regular dose of country and nature.
I cannot abide mustard, tomatoes, vinegar or bananas, all of which I consider to be the work of the Devil.
People are often surprised to learn I was the Young Farmers under 16 pig judging champion.
This is the part where I am supposed to present a perfectly polished version of myself.
I would rather you met the real one.
What Matters to Me
I believe we are spiritual beings having a very human experience.
I believe everything and everyone is connected.
I believe intuition is valuable, but discernment is essential.
I believe people deserve to be heard without being hurried, judged or reduced to a label.
I believe beginners deserve proper teaching—not humiliation dressed up as spiritual development.
I believe you should not judge somebody by the chapter you walked in on.
I believe Mother Earth is a source—not a resource.
I believe energy flows where attention goes.
I believe that just when everything appears to be falling apart, it may actually be coming together.
And I believe that laughter and proper coffee improve most situations.
I believe that the Universe eves drops on our words and conspires to make it so.
Is Working With Me Right for You?
We may work well together if:
- You are spiritually curious but want to remain grounded.
- You want to explore without being told what to believe.
- You value warmth, honesty and straight talking.
- You want proper teaching and practical experience.
- You are willing to ask questions.
- You want support that recognises your mind, body and spirit.
- You appreciate laughter alongside the serious stuff.
- You are ready to look at the BLAHs™ that may be holding you back.
I may not be the right person for you if you want somebody to hand you all the answers, predict every detail of your future or take responsibility for your choices.
I will walk beside you.
I will not live your life for you or tell you how to live your life, but together we can create a brighter, more fulfilling life. Life, it’s what happens when you are planning other things. Do not ask for an easy life, ask for the strength to live a difficult life.
You Don’t Need to Have It All Worked Out
You may be standing at the beginning of your spiritual journey.
You may have been exploring for years.
You may not even know whether “spiritual” is the right word for what you are feeling.
That is all right.
Bring your questions, curiosity and uncertainty.
We will take it from there.
Different paths. Different people. No one-size-fits-all answers.
Just honest exploration, practical support and space to become more fully yourself.
Smooth be thy journey.